Sex Toys to satisfy the 3 P’s, Penis, Prostate and Perineum. Yes, please.

When it comes to sex shops, the words vulva and clitoris are heard a lot, and before you start to think, ‘yes what about the penis owners!’ Well there's a good reason for this, and that dear friends is the giant pleasure gap between vulva and penis owners, which is a subject for an entirely different article, in the future. But in the meantime, we wanted to show all the penis owners out there some extra love. Let’s brush up on these erogenous zones real quick and then we can recommend the best toys to play around with for some enhanced pleasure

Perineum

Also known as the taint, this is the part of the skin right between the scrotum and the anus. Applying pressure to this area or incorporating the use of a vibrator can create mounds of pleasure.

Ollie is a good vibrator to use to massage this area, place the head of the wand vibrator against the perineum. If the pressure is too much, use a layer of fabric or clothing to get it just right for you.
This area is a bit difficult to reach during intercourse, you better believe we have a solution, the Tenga SVR is a wearable vibrator that fits around the penis of the penetrating partner and if the vibrating side is placed down it can stimulate the perineum.

Prostate

Ah, the “male G-spot” or “P-spot”, this sensitive gland is inside the body, behind the penis. This gland has a large amount of nerve endings making it extremely pleasurable to touch. The easiest point of entry is through the rectum, fingers, plugs or massagers all work well in this zone.
If you are exploring internally make sure to use lube as the anus is not self-lubricating, a water-based lube is well-suited to latex condoms and sex toys. When dry, reapply!
When using a toy, ensure that it has a flared base that remains outside the body, this ensures you won’t lose your toy, that would not be a pleasant emergency room visit. You’ll find the P-spot, the place where the prostate is most sensitive, a few inches into the anus towards the belly. Feel for a walnut-size gland on the other side of the rectal tissue.

Let’s talk about butt plugs. We have 3 options which you are going to love!

Nudge by Unbound Babes, Nudge is made out of 100% medical grade body safe silicone. With its slim, tapered tip and smooth silicone exterior, Nudge is designed with comfort in mind. Nudge features a curved base with just enough flexibility to fit your shape.

The Neighbor who makes you smile thanks to Smile Makers. The Neighbor is the vibrating butt plug we can all get behind. It’s your typical toy next door; cute, dependable, anything but intimidating – and ready to add just the right amount of spice to solo or partnered sex. Basically, it’s everything a beginner’s anal vibrator should be.

The Xaga Root from Chakrubs, The Xaga Root is made from pure black obsidian. Intended for anal explorations, the Xaga Root connects with the root chakra, helping us tap into our primal, sensual, and creative urges.

When anal penetration goes too deep, a wearable buffer like Ohnut may be helpful. Made of 4 interlocking rings, you can customize the depth - without sacrificing sensation. Add and remove rings at any time with any position as so that you and your partner can focus on what matters most - each other. Ohnut is designed to feel just like skin. It’s so comfortable (like a gentle hug) you and your partner will barely notice it’s there. We don't know about you, but we much prefer getting lost in pleasure, rather than worrying about pain.

Penis & Testicles

There are more ways to experience a penis aside from being a blunt instrument. Using a vibrator can be very pleasurable for some, try using it against the glans (the head) or the sensitive bit of flexible skin on the underside of the penis where the shaft meets the glans or even the scrotum and testicles.
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Our toy recommendations here are the Bandit, which is a stretchy, smooth silicone ring designed to constrict blood flow out of the penis when worn at the base.

The SVR, again, a vibrating cock ring that provides clitoral stimulation during partnered sex. And many more sleeves from Tenga, such as the Flex, a masturbation sleeve that will spiral you into bliss.
Remember, the penis is not self-lubricating, so please ensure you use water based lube when using toys to reduce friction and reach even more pleasure.

We are excited for you to dive into the world of toys and maximise your pleasure. Remember to pay attention to what feels good and make sure to communicate to each other how you are feeling. Workout what is most pleasurable to you, we are all different, and enjoy!