· By Team PLEASE
If you’ve pondered on it, or perhaps your partner has suggested it but have not yet gotten into anal play, then this one is you.
Anal sex is something that’s been often overlooked or for some strange reason not spoken about as openly. For those who have a prostate gland, anal sex can provide intense orgasmic stimulation while those with vaginas will usually experience internal clitoral stimulation via anal play.
So if you’re someone who has been wanting to give it a go but haven;t yet for whatever reason, here are some tips and tricks to keep in mind to ensure that your first anal experience is as enjoyable as possible.
Work you way up to it
Anal play can be painful at first but it doesn’t have to be if you just work your way up to it. Foreplay is everything. Start as small as using fingers or devices and even start on the outside before working your way in. Get comfortable with the feeling and soon enough you’ll feel more relaxed and ready for penetration.
Take it slow
Then when it comes to penetration, remember not to rush. Slow and steady. Communication is everything, so make sure whether you’re giving or getting, you’re both talking to each other throughout the process to avoid any pain.
Lube is your best friend
When it comes to anal play, it’s NB! to use lube because unfortunately your butt does not self lubricate. Lube will help ease the process and will also help your first anal play experience feel so silky smooth. You know where to find some. Only a Pleasure.
Even if you’re in a monogamous relationship it’s always a good idea to use protection during anal play to help prevent the spread of bacteria. And another NB! Is to never go from anal play straight to vaginal play.
And then the last thing, we at Please always encourage you to take part in experiences you are comfortable with. Consent and communication is key. If you don’t enjoy it, don’t do it.
But if you are interested, go ahead and give it a go, now that you’re all clued up.