The Rise and Role of Intimacy Coordinators

· By Team PLEASE

The Importance of Ensuring Safety, Respect, and Authenticity in On-Screen Intimacy

As we gear up for our 6th volume of ‘Popcorn, please.’ which celebrates films that explore themes of connection and intimacy, we realize that it’s essential to highlight the critical role of intimacy coordinators in today’s film industry.

These professionals have become indispensable in ensuring that intimate scenes are handled with the utmost respect and sensitivity. Their work not only enhances the safety and comfort of actors but also contributes to more authentic and impactful storytelling.

As we showcase movies that delve into the complexities of connection and sex, discussing the role of intimacy coordinators is crucial for understanding how these scenes are crafted with care and integrity. This conversation is a natural extension of our event's focus, reflecting our commitment to both celebrating and respecting the art of cinema.



In recent years, the film and television industry has seen a significant shift in how intimate scenes are handled on set. Shows like HBO’s Euphoria and Netflix’s Sex Education have garnered attention not just for their bold storytelling but for their commitment to ensuring the safety and comfort of their actors during sensitive scenes.

Central to this shift is the emergence of a crucial new role: the intimacy coordinator. As the #MeToo movement reshaped Hollywood and brought attention to issues of consent and power dynamics, and the need for professionals dedicated to safeguarding actors in vulnerable situations became increasingly clear.

It’s pretty crazy when we look at how relatively new the role of the intimacy coordinator is, only emerging around 2017 in response to growing concerns about the treatment of actors during intimate scenes. Before this, actors were often left to navigate these situations on their own, relying on the guidance of directors or fellow actors. However, this often led to uncomfortable or even unsafe working conditions. The introduction of intimacy coordinators aimed to address this gap, ensuring that actors have a clear understanding of what will happen during a scene and that their boundaries are respected.


So what do Intimacy Coordinators do exactly ?

Essentially they are responsible for choreographing intimate scenes, much like a stunt coordinator would handle action sequences. Their job includes facilitating open communication between the actors and directors, ensuring that all parties are comfortable with the scenes, and that clear boundaries are set. They work closely with actors to establish consent for each part of a scene, often using tools like “safe words” and clear guidelines on touch to maintain a professional and respectful environment.

Moreover, intimacy coordinators also play a role in the pre-production phase, working with writers and directors to ensure that intimate scenes are necessary to the narrative and are portrayed in a manner that is respectful and authentic. Their involvement from the script stage to the final cut helps to prevent any last-minute surprises or discomforts, ensuring that everyone on set is on the same page.


 

The significance of intimacy coordinators cannot be overstated

Their presence on set is not just about choreographing physical actions; it's about creating a culture of respect and safety. In an industry where power dynamics can be complex and the lines of consent can sometimes blur, having a dedicated professional to advocate for the actors' well-being is crucial. Intimacy coordinators help to establish clear boundaries and expectations, which in turn allows actors to focus on their performances without fear or discomfort.

By normalising conversations about consent and boundaries, intimacy coordinators are also helping to shift the broader culture within the industry. Their work is contributing to a more inclusive and supportive environment, where actors of all genders and backgrounds can feel empowered to speak up about their needs and concerns. This is particularly important in an era where issues of sexual harassment and abuse have come to the forefront, highlighting the need for systemic change.

Furthermore, the impact of intimacy coordinators extends beyond the actors to the entire production team. Directors and producers benefit from the added professionalism and care that intimacy coordinators bring, which can prevent conflicts and ensure that the production runs smoothly. In the long run, this leads to higher-quality productions, as the trust and respect fostered on set translate into more authentic and powerful performances.


The introduction of intimacy coordinators has been incredibly impactful; and widely praised within the industry.

Actors have reported feeling more secure and respected on set, which in turn has led to more authentic performances. Directors and producers also benefit from the added layer of professionalism and care that intimacy coordinators bring to the set, which can prevent potential conflicts and ensure that the production runs smoothly.

However, the role has not been without its challenges. Some directors and actors initially resisted the idea, fearing that it might interfere with the creative process. Over time, though, the industry has largely come to recognize the value of intimacy coordinators, understanding that a well-choreographed intimate scene can be just as powerful, if not more so, when everyone involved feels safe and respected.

In today’s climate, the rise of intimacy coordinators marks a significant and positive shift in the film and television industry. Their role is ultimately essential in ensuring that intimate scenes are handled with the care, respect, and professionalism they deserve.

As the industry continues to evolve, the presence of intimacy coordinators will likely become even more integral, setting new standards for how intimate scenes are approached. In an era where the well-being of actors is finally taking centre stage, intimacy coordinators are proving to be an essential part of the storytelling process, ensuring that every scene is handled with the care and respect it deserves.