Masturbation May: Your Pleasure, Your Way

· By Team PLEASE

Better Orgasms for anybody and everybody.

As you know, it’s Masturbation May — the month that celebrates solo pleasure without shame. Whether you’re rediscovering your own body or looking to level up your self-love routine, the right toy can unlock new sensations, deeper connection to your body, and better sex (solo or shared). At Please, we’re all about pleasure that’s personal, powerful, and stigma-free — so we’ve rounded up six of our favourite toys (plus one must-have lube) to get you started, no matter what you’re working with down there.

Let’s get into it.

For Penises:

1. TENGA Flex

Sleek, spiraled, and satisfyingly intense — the Tenga Flex isn’t just a sleeve, it’s an experience. Designed to twist with every stroke, it creates a unique suction sensation that mimics oral sex. It’s reusable, easy to clean, and looks more like a sculpture than a sex toy (we love a little design with our desire).

2. TENGA Egg

Small but oh-so-mighty, the Tenga Egg is a discreet, stretchy stroker that fits in the palm of your hand. Each egg has a different internal texture, offering surprise and delight every time. Perfect for travel, gifting, or just a little pick-me-up when you want it.


For Vulvas:

3. Dame Com

A powerhouse of a vibrator that’s as ergonomic as it is effective. The Dame Com is soft, strong, and designed to rest in the palm of your hand, delivering rumbly vibrations where you want them most — externally, internally, or all around. A great choice for beginners and pros alike.

4. Puissante Coco

If you’ve never tried suction, this is your sign. The Coco uses air pulses to stimulate the clitoris without direct contact, meaning it’s perfect for people who find vibration overwhelming or want something a little more subtle (but still intense). It’s a game-changer for many.

5. Chakrubs Xaga Wand (Amethyst)

Crystal calm meets carnal connection. This beautiful amethyst wand isn’t just a visual delight — it offers grounding, intentional pleasure without any buzzing or batteries. Great for slow, mindful sessions or anyone exploring the energetic side of self-love.

6. Njoy Pure Wand

The holy grail for G-spot (or prostate!) stimulation. Made of smooth stainless steel with a weight that adds pressure in all the right places, this toy is all about curve, control, and deep satisfaction. It’s gender-inclusive, body-safe, and beloved for a reason.


And Don’t Forget the Lube:

Please Lube

No matter what’s in your hand (or inside), lube makes everything better. Our water-based lube is silky, body-safe, and compatible with all toys. It enhances sensation, reduces friction, and makes every stroke, slide, or grind smoother. Add it. Trust us.

Your Pleasure, Your Rules

Why Masturbation isn’t just about orgasms (though we love those too) — it’s about tuning into your body, releasing shame, and discovering what feels good on your own terms. So whether you’re all about buzz, suction, pressure, or glide, celebrate Masturbation May by giving yourself exactly what you want.

Because the most important relationship you have is the one with yourself.